It is so weird how things come up in themes for me.  Recently, several meetings I’ve attended had speakers who have said everything happens twice; once in your mind, and then once in practice.  When the first person said “everything happens twice” my first thought was he was going to talk about how to get things right the first time so you don’t have to screw it up once.  So imagine my surprise when it wasn’t a criticism, but a positive! In my second encounter, the person who said it then followed up with a description of a program he put together. It was amazing to me because what he was saying was he THOUGHT about each step of the project but what I and another woman in the group heard was DO.  Two different styles that are so ingrained we couldn’t even hear it […] Continue reading